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Mirabelli and Sterotypes



My first job was server at a small cafe that I still work at now. I had to learn skills such as, working the register, writing down orders, and most importantly, customer service skills. Within the customer service skills, I had to learn to be patient with everybody, time management, and even though the customer is wrong - “the customer is always right.” Some of these were difficult to learn, I quickly learned I work well under pressure, but as an introvert, it took a while to get used to the fact that I will be seeing customers that day and I will have to talk to them even though I don’t want to. It was also slightly difficult to learn how to please every single customer even when they are completely rude to me or obnoxiously wrong. Eventually, I got the hang of things and although at times it gets rough, I manage it. 

Mirabelli’s discussion states how service workers do have a standard of literacy and how they have to have a standard of understanding their customers request and translate that into writing, especially for special requests. In the future, I plan to be a Physical Therapist. Although not required to attend 4 years of medical school, Physical Therapists are considered doctors and have to have a comprehensive understanding of the medical world. This involves having pretty intensive reading and comprehension skills. While working with patient’s it is important to be able to apply their medical knowledge - mostly pertaining to anatomy and physiology - in order to effectively benefit their patients. Physical therapy techniques are constantly changing and developing and as a Physical Therapist, I anticipate having to read plenty of medical articles and being able to interpret those concepts and idea’s into my everyday work with patients. A lack in this are could ultimately harm my patients and weaken my reliability. 

In Mirabelli’s article, it states how there are general stereotypes of waiters and waitresses that, simply put, are not true. These stereotypes include being ignorant, stupid, and have little contributions to society. It even goes to say that some Economists “suggest that interactive service workers lack the necessary education to be ‘knowledge’ workers.” And that “service work is ‘mindless’.” Mirabelli argues that, in fact, the necessary skills to be a waiter or waitress, are complex, and a simple task, such as taking someones order, can turn complex due to the skills necessary to translate that information into the language that is a standard in the workplace. 

According to a study that evaluated the stereotypes that Occupational Therapists (OT) thought about Physical Therapists (PT) (and vice-versa), some negative stereotypes that OT’s said about PT’s are that they are “overrated,” “competitive,” and “strict.” Some positive stereotypes included,  “proud,” “passive” and “precise.” On top of this, the most common thing I have personally heard when I tell people I want to become a PT is “oh, you’ll be able to give me a great massage,” implying that all PT’s do is give massages. Overall, PT’s have a good reputation and looked at with respect. I’m not really sure if there is a way to avoid stereotyping. Stereotypes relate an entire group together, and you, as an individual, can do whatever you can do not fit into the stereotypes and prove to the people around you abasing those stereotypes but it won’t dismiss the group’s stereotype(s). 


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  1. Hi there Sivan!
    First off, good for you for planning on being a Physical Therapist! With your skills that you've gained at your current job at the cafe, will definitely help prepare you for medical school since you've experience with and actually work well under pressure.
    I feel like people always have stereotypes for every job or position there is out in the world and so other people feed off on those stereotypes. And so, I completely agree with you on how we can stop engaging into the stereotypes to stop it.

    - Jenny

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  2. Hi Sivan!
    Physical Therapy was one of my choices for my major before deciding to go with Foods and Nutrition and I understand the common stereotype that PTs just give massages. This is definitely not true and far from it! Also, I relate to your experience as a food service worker and how customers sometimes treat employees rudely or lower than them. Good thing is that you have patience in that kind of situation and you sure have learned some skills such as being able to work under pressure, that may become useful in your future career as a physical therapist.

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  3. Hi Sivan,

    As someone is also worked in food and drink service, I completely relate with you when dealing with difficult customers and their special requests. Although it can be mentally exhausting at time handling customers, it does help build communication skills and gets you used to being around people, which will do wonders for you when treating patients as a Physical Therapist. I have heard of some stereotypes of PTs as mainly massage-givers, but when I was recovering from a wrist fracture and underwent physical therapy, I learned full well that PTs are much more than masseuses. They require intensive knowledge about the part of the body that needs rehabilitation and put together a full therapy program customized according to their patient's needs. I respect physical therapists and give my full support in your future career!

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  4. Hi Sivan! (My last comment was for some reason deleted so I will try to summarize again!- sorry if it gets posted twice!)
    I liked that you had previous (current) experience in the food service, so were able to relate to this article. I liked that you were aware that the field of PT will come with its own "language" and that you looked up specific words that were associated with the stereotyping of the PT field. I also liked that you were able to recognize that even though someone may do everything in their power to be apart from their set stereotype, one can sometimes not escape it. Good luck in your PT endeavors!
    -Shelby

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  5. Hi Sivan,
    Thank you for sharing your story. I admire people like you who can turn around and change to another person just because you are in that position. Working in a coffee shop is not an easy job. I am an early bird, and I like to spent early morning in a coffee shop for that piece of peacefulness. However, even at early in the morning, there are people coming to the door with anger and resentfulness, and taking it on the waitress. With your story and Mirabelli’s article, I now have even more respect to interactive service workers, and agree fondly that serving table does require its own unique language and skills of interpretation.
    It is very interesting to read that article that study stereotype between OT and PT students. When I read the article, I have a picture in mind that OT and PT students were tossing at each other with water balloons…

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  6. How’s it going Sivan,

    I just wanted to start off by saying—judging by your blog post and Mirabelli’s—being a waiter or waitress seems like a tough job, and I’m sure getting the hang of things must have been tough. I was never a waiter, but I’ve had a few jobs that required similar stress levels and quality assurance. For starters, my first job as an embroider’s assistant I was often shifting my attention from task-to-task making sure that the operations were moving smoothly without delay or errors in the finished product (I discuss more in my blog). This is similar to how waiters and waitresses have to juggle the many responsibilities in a restaurant all while making sure the customer is happy. Another job experience I had that more so parallels the responsibilities of a waiter or waitress is my current job as a tutor. I currently have to jump from student to student, like a waiter or waitress jumps from table to table, help students understand various materials from different subjects. This occupation perhaps differs from that of a waiter or waitress in the way that it is stereotyped. Because tutoring is associated with education tutors may be seen a more capable that waiters or waitresses even though the intellectual ability is about the same.

    Thank you for sharing,

    Phillip Tarantino

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  7. Hey Sivan,
    I enjoyed reading your blog, I can completely relate with you on how being in the restaurant industry can be a pain at times, mostly because of the customers. I've been working at a restaurant for about three years now and I have had my share of annoying customers. When I first started working I also had a hard time communicating with new people all day but eventually this job helped me become more social in my personal life. I hope you get to become a personal trainer, my older brother wanted to become one as well before he decided to get a career in business so I already knew what that job entails so the stereotypes that you listed are all too familiar. Best of luck!

    Dylan Plaster

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    1. Hey Sivan,
      "the customer is always right," yeah right! I can understand your frustration with that little sentence, makes your life very stressful when working in customer service.
      I am a very outgoing person, but I can see that it can be hard for an introverted person to be able to perform customer service tasks. However, it's good to hear that you are doing great at it!
      I've always found physical therapy very interesting, how one can improve by stimulation, hard work and dedication. It sure does not seem a very easy career but all of the reading and studying that you have to do will definitely pay off.
      I wish you the best,
      Julianna Jimenez

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  8. Hi Sivan,
    I was reading through your blog and I want to point out the same frustration as you when I used to work at a fast food place. Like what Julianna said in her comment, the saying that "the customer is always right"....sure, like they know how we do things in our area of work. Also, I am going for the same future career as you. As a filipino, people would always tell me to "why not be a nurse" or ask me if I am taking up nursing (because it's like the 50% of filipino's career). In addition, the fact that I have to explain to people the difference of being a PT and OT is very tiring as they see both professions as being the same.

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  9. Hey Sivan,

    I definitely share the plight of customer service. The notion that "the customer is always right" can be very frustrating to deal with, especially in tough situations where the customer is being rather stingy and hard to deal with. That requires a special kind of interpersonal relations skill that I don't think gets enough credit for how much servers have to exercise and practice the skill.

    I think it's really interesting how you point out that stereotypes exist and will always exist. This is true, and your point that as an individual you can do whatever necessary to mitigate those stereotypes ties in very well with Mirabelli's point of people not acknowledging the work that various groups put in. This is also true in engineering among various majors. For example, a common joke I see being thrown from mechanical engineers to civil engineers is that civil engineers are really good at "building targets for us".

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